DON'T BASH BECAUSE IT DIDN'T WORK! GOD HAD HIM/HER THERE FOR A REASON!

There are times when people are placed in your life to show you something, teach you something, or test you on something. Stop forcing them to be more than what it is! When God place them in your life, pay attention to what is being said or done; they will show you why they are there. Sometimes you are placed in others life so God can show them something, teach them something, or test them! Stop trying to force it upon them, God will do it! Sometimes Great RELATIONSHIPS come out of it, and maybe not! 

When it doesn't DON'T BASH THEM, they met you where you were, and you met them where they were and you meshed. Somebody changed for the BETTERMENT of their life, and the other was not ready for it. You and they are the same sweet, kind, person, that you/they were, yet, SOMEBODY WANTED MORE! It doesn't mean the other doesn't, they just have not seen a need or even recognized the need. GOD DEALS WITH US IN DIFFERENT WAYS BUT LOVES US ALL THE SAME! STOP BASHING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF YOUR REASONS, WHETHER IT APPEARS TO BE RIGHT OR WRONG....GOD WILL JUDGE! Matthew 7:1-3. 

Everyone is a sinner: "there is not a just man upon earth, that doeth good, and sinneth not" (Ecclesiastes 7:20).
With God no one sin is greater than any other. They all have the same consequence. 

Hebrews 12:1King James Version (KJV)

Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,